couples Counselling

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Create a relationship that brings you joy and fulfillment

"Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it"

-Rumi

All couples experience challenges in their relationship, communication, sex and/or intimacy. Research shows that most couples wait for years before they come for Couples Counselling. Years! That’s years of repeating the same fight over and over, years when resentment builds, years when you start loosing hope. What if there was a better way? 

Are you and your spouse drifting apart?

Are there certain topics you can’t discuss without fighting?  Do you feel heard? Are you having difficulty communicating and expressing your needs, wants and desires?  Perhaps you hold back from speaking your truth, or are afraid of conflict. Is there Emotional Distance in the relationship? Are you longing to connect with each other on a deep emotional level?

 

This can affect your day to day, your sex life, and ultimately, your sense of security in your relationship. I can help you create a safe and trusting space to find your voice and be heard and seen in your relationship. 

Together you can:

  • learn better conflict resolution

  • learn an art of compromise

  • grow as individuals, while your relationship grows stronger

  • learn how to really hear each other, and how to deal with triggers 

  • clear past resentments and traumas 

Do you feel more like roommates than lovers?

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Maybe your relationship and communication is great, except for in the bedroom. Mismatched sex drives or desire discrepancy is one of the most common concerns that couples come to counselling for. You don’t know how to talk about it, and when you try it turns into a fight or disappointment. 

 

You are tired of always having to say no, or be the one who’s always initiating. You stopped kissing or huggin each other. And you miss it, a lot.

You want to feel intimate and connected. You want to feel closeness. You want it to feel special, and you want to feel loved and cared for. Desired. Seen. Adored. 

You want more. You know it's possible. 

 

My training in both the Eastern and Western philosophies, as well as Tantric education, provides a unique approach to heightening relationship intimacy and sexuality. I’ve worked with couples in all of these scenarios, and have helped them get what they truly want from their relationship. 

Together you can

  • recover after an affair 

  • heal sexual pain and/or past traumas 

  • heal attachment wounds and develop secure attachment 

  • explore Tantric sexuality, energy orgasms, mindfulness, awareness and pleasure

  • learn how to deal with mismatched desire with ease 

Why work with Rovena?

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As a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and Counsellor, Tantric Teacher, and Somatic Sexologist, I can help you reconnect with your partner and create a richer, more satisfying relationship. I will create a space grounded in trust and acceptance in where we can work together to heal from the past and create a happier and more fulfilling future.

 

After I discovered Tantra, which has been a life-changing path, I began studying with some of the best Tantra Teachers and Relationship Coaches in the world. Uniquely, I combine Eastern spiritual traditions with the most current Western Counselling practices to offer practical, fun, and transformational approach to relationship coaching and counselling. I’ve further incorporated practices such as the Gottman Method Therapy, Core Erotic Blueprints™, Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, Conflict Management in Relationships, and Mind Clearing to ensure I’m able to meet the needs of even more clients. 

In reality, every relationship has challenges.. The tendency for couples is to blame each other and enter a hopeless downward spiral of resentment and frustration. 

“Imagine being in a relationship where you know your partner has your back, when you are in it together and there’s a level of ease,  secure attachment and safety in the relationship. When you know each other’s world, and share your wants and needs and desires. A relationship where you feel fully heard and fully present.

 

I think we all want relationships like this and I’m here to help you learn  the tools to build it. Would you benefit from the following?

  • Stellar communication where both of you feels heard and appreciated and deeply understood.

  • A safe place that allows you to openly talk about your needs and wants, and receiving support that will facilitate positive change in your relationship.

  • Discover where your communication may be stuck, where you may be going in different directions, and learning tools to restore the harmony in your relationship.

  • Bring your intimacy and connection to a whole new level.  How to build tantric and somatic practices into your relationship and sex life. Discover the energetics of sex!

  • How to share goals, dreams, and intentions. Creating relationship of your dreams so you both can feel fulfilled and supported and happy. 

 

And so much more. I’m happy to answer any questions related to sexuality, relationship, spirituality to the best of my abilities.

Whatever your challenge, I am on your side. I am committed to supporting you both in creating a relationship of your dreams.

Where to Start

Rovena Magidin's coaching/counselling packages are customized to your needs.

 

We can work together for a few sessions or create life changing packages that last several months. In every case, though, our first 30 minute phone consultation is FREE. I want to make sure we are a good fit, and that the work I do is right for you.

 

Session structure and investment

 

I begin with three 90 minute sessions. This gives you a chance to see how I work, to practice and it's often enough time for you to start noticing the difference in your life and your relationships. It also gives me enough time to understand your needs better and come up with a plan for moving forward. After 3 sessions we sit down and talk about the options. I am flexible in creating a sessions plan and pricing structure that fits with your schedule and your needs. I am based in Calgary, Alberta and offer online sessions via Zoom.

In between sessions, you’ll also have weekly homework! You are not alone; I am here to support you on your journey.  You get to practice the skills we are learning, creating momentum first, then lasting change, and finally, a transformation.

While I’m able to help so many couples, there are a few situations where I might not be the best fit, including​

  • People who don't want to take personal responsibility for their relationship. If you'd rather be right than kind, this is not the right work for you. Both of you must be willing to grow.

  • If there's domestic violence, active addiction or an untreated acute mental illness present in the relationship - you need specialized help with a licensed professional. 

Have questions first? No problem. Please contact me. I’d be happy to talk to you.

WHAT PEOPLE SAY

"J and I got to connect on a level I was afraid had disappeared. It came back loud and clear. I'm so grateful"

“We’ve had conversations I’ve never had in previous relationships and because of that we’ve been able to explore areas of sexuality that I’ve previously kept to myself. It gives each of us the freedom and trust to talk about the most vulnerable of topics at times. We don’t fear those conversations any more - they get easier and easier”
 

"Our communication has grown. We have grown. Our energy is growing daily. The things we have learnt from Rovena have been vast and many. It is a beautiful exchange between the three of us every time. If she sees we are moving in a different direction she takes a moment to move with us not force us down the path she had "planned". She follows her heart and intuition and it is an extremely gentle and loving experience every time. "

"Oh. My. God! Rovena!!! What have you done to us?!?!  We'll never be the same again!! And I mean that in the very best way possible!  Your workshop was absolutely wonderful! We are so thankful.  Have much to think about, to talk about. Very healing and nurturing for us on many levels. Amazing! "