Create a relationship that brings you joy and fulfillment
"Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it"
All couples experience challenges in their relationship, communication, sex and/or intimacy. Research shows that most couples wait for years before they come for Couples Counselling. Years! That’s years of repeating the same fight over and over, years when resentment builds, years when you start loosing hope. What if there was a better way?
Are you and your spouse drifting apart?
Are there certain topics you can’t discuss without fighting? Do you feel heard? Are you having difficulty communicating and expressing your needs, wants and desires? Perhaps you hold back from speaking your truth, or are afraid of conflict. Is there Emotional Distance in the relationship? Are you longing to connect with each other on a deep emotional level?
This can affect your day to day, your sex life, and ultimately, your sense of security in your relationship. I can help you create a safe and trusting space to find your voice and be heard and seen in your relationship.
Together you can:
learn better conflict resolution
learn an art of compromise
grow as individuals, while your relationship grows stronger
learn how to really hear each other, and how to deal with triggers
clear past resentments and traumas
Do you feel more like roommates than lovers?
Maybe your relationship and communication is great, except for in the bedroom. Mismatched sex drives or desire discrepancy is one of the most common concerns that couples come to counselling for. You don’t know how to talk about it, and when you try it turns into a fight or disappointment.
You are tired of always having to say no, or be the one who’s always initiating. You stopped kissing or huggin each other. And you miss it, a lot.
You want to feel intimate and connected. You want to feel closeness. You want it to feel special, and you want to feel loved and cared for. Desired. Seen. Adored.
My training in both the Eastern and Western philosophies, as well as Tantric education, provides a unique approach to heightening relationship intimacy and sexuality. I’ve worked with couples in all of these scenarios, and have helped them get what they truly want from their relationship.
Together you can
recover after an affair
heal sexual pain
heal from past traumas
heal attachment wounds and develop secure attachment
find ease and pleasure and have FUN
Why work with Rovena?
As a Relationship and Intimacy Coach, Tantric Teacher, and Sexologist, I can help you reconnect with your partner and create a richer, more satisfying relationship. I will create a space grounded in trust and acceptance in where we can work together to heal from the past and create a happier and more fulfilling future.
After I discovered Tantra, which has been a life-changing path, I began studying with some of the best Tantra Teachers and Relationship Coaches in the world. Uniquely, I combine Eastern spiritual traditions with the most current Western Counselling practices to offer practical, fun, and transformational approach to relationship coaching and counselling. I’ve further incorporated practices such as the Gottman Method Therapy, Core Erotic Blueprints™, Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, Conflict Management in Relationships, and Mind Clearing to ensure I’m able to meet the needs of even more clients.
In reality, every relationship has challenges.. The tendency for couples is to blame each other and enter a downward spiral together. But whats really needed is to upgrade your combined ability to get yourself across in ways that work, and to really receive the other in a deeper way, so you can support each other more in life, and feel supported, and work things out in a way that works for both of you.
Here are some things I’ve worked with couples on in the past. See what resonates with you.
Creating a healthier relationship, healing from the past
Has there been a traumatic event or difficult situation in your relationship that is preventing you from growing together? I can help guide you through difficult conversations so you can begin to heal.
Are you looking to improve your communication and closeness with your partner. I am versed in the Gottman Method Therapy and Mind Clearing, which aim to increase respect, affection, closeness, and much more.
Are you looking for meaning in your life together? I can help you identify your strengths and how you can support each other in building a more meaningful life.
Building a better sex life
Are your sex drives mismatched? My background with Core Erotic Blueprints can be a starting point to helping you explore new approaches to increase your intimacy levels, and discovering a new level of desire that’s satisfying and pleasurable for both partners.
Are you a couple in a sexless marriage who love each other and want more sex. Ok, the desire is there, but things are stagnant and you’re unsure how to experience passion again. I’ll teach you how to connect, touch, and experience satisfaction more regularly, including in your sex life.
Considering a long term commitment but wondering if you’re sexually compatible for the long haul? I’ll teach you sex and communication skills that will allow you to experience fluidity instead of awkwardness.
Exploring Tantra together
You’ve heard of Tantra in terms of, perhaps, Tantric massage and little else. There is a whole world for you to explore! Tantra is a portal to greater intimacy with yourself and others. I can introduce teachings and help you build Tantric practices into your lives.
Tantra will teach you a lot about relationships. This includes your partnership as well as your relationships with yourself and others. If you’re looking to expand, Tantra is a wonderful path.
Ready to supercharge your sex life? I can teach you about energetic orgasms, whole body orgasms (for both partners), orgasms without ejaculation (for men), female ejaculation, and so much more (please note that in-person sessions with me do not include any sexual touch).
Whatever your challenge, I am on your side. I am committed to supporting you both in creating a relationship of your dreams.
“Imagine being in a relationship where you know your partner has your back, when you are in it together and there’s that level of secure attachment and safety in the relationship. When you know each other’s world, your wants and needs and desires. A relationship where you feel fully heard and fully present.
I think we all want relationships like this and I’m here to help you learn the tools to build it. Would you benefit from the following?
Stellar communication where both of you feels heard and appreciated and deeply understood.
A safe place that allows you to openly talk about your needs and wants, and receiving support that will facilitate positive change in your relationship.
Discover where your communication may be stuck, where you may be going in different directions, and learning tools to restore the harmony in your relationship.
Bring your intimacy and connection to a whole new level. How to build tantric and somatic practices into your relationship and sex life. Discover the energetics of sex!
Master masculine/feminine dynamics in your relationship.
How to share goals, dreams, and intentions. Creating relationship of your dreams so you both can feel fulfilled and supported and happy.
And so much more. I’m happy to answer any questions related to sexuality, relationship, spirituality to the best of my abilities.
Where to Start
Rovena Magidin's coaching/counselling packages are customized to your needs.
We can work together for a few sessions or create life changing packages that last several months. In every case, though, our first 30 minute phone consultation is FREE. I want to make sure we are a good fit, and that the work I do is right for you.
Session structure and investment
I begin with three 90 minute sessions. This gives you a chance to see how I work, to practice and it's often enough time for you to start noticing the difference in your life and your relationships. It also gives me enough time to understand your needs better and come up with a plan for moving forward. After 3 sessions we sit down and talk about the options. I am flexible in creating a sessions plan and pricing structure that fits with your schedule and your needs. I am based in Calgary, Alberta and offer online sessions via Zoom.
In between sessions, you’ll also have weekly homework! You are not alone; I am here to support you on your journey. You get to practice the skills we are learning, creating momentum first, then lasting change, and finally, a transformation.
My commitment to you
Its up to you to decide together how you will go about your relationship. I see my role as someone who may be able to help you improve your way of communicating and work things out together. but I can't do it for you and it does work for me to try. So I will respect that sacred ground of your relationship and place myself in a helping position from the outside rather than trying to enter your relationship and run it for for you.
I support couples working things out. I won't be taking the side of one of you aginst the other. I am on the side of the way forwrad for both of you. I am on the side of your mutual intent to find a better way in your relationship that works for both of you and makes sense for both of you.
While I’m able to help so many couples, there are a few situations where I might not be the best fit, including
People who don't want to take personal responsibility for their relationship. If you'd rather be right than kind, this is not the right work for you.
People who are blaming their partners for anything that is not working, and not for people who don't want to make any effort to change. Both of you must be willing to grow.
Have questions first? No problem. Please contact me. I’d be happy to talk to you.
WHAT PEOPLE SAY
"I really learned the value of sharing and holding space for myself and others and how much deep healing can be done with others."
“We’ve had conversations I’ve never had in previous relationships and because of that we’ve been able to explore areas of sexuality that I’ve previously kept to myself. It gives each of us the freedom and trust to talk about the most vulnerable of topics at times. We don’t fear those conversations any more - they get easier and easier”
"Our communication has grown. We have grown. Our energy is growing daily. The things we have learnt from Rovena have been vast and many. It is a beautiful exchange between the three of us every time. If she sees we are moving in a different direction she takes a moment to move with us not force us down the path she had "planned". She follows her heart and intuition and it is an extremely gentle and loving experience every time. "
"Oh. My. God! Rovena!!! What have you done to us?!?! We'll never be the same again!! And I mean that in the very best way possible! Your workshop was absolutely wonderful! We are so thankful. Have much to think about, to talk about. Very healing and nurturing for us on many levels. Amazing! "